Theology of Denial

It's Monday, our 16 th wedding anniversary. Not thatWords have meaning, and the words of theology are
this has anyting to do with the subject of this article.no exception to the rules of diction. Resurrection
Okay, I'm driving our 14-year-old daughter andmeans rising from the dead; dying and staying dead
12-year-old son to school. And as I normally do oncannot mean the same thing as being raised back to
school days, the radio is set to a Christian stationlife. Healing has a meaning, and it does not mean the
with Focus On The Family as the program. Thissame as death. Why do we even have to point that
morning Dr. James Dobson, the psychologist,out?
best-selling author, and traditional evangelical leaderAs Christians, our theology of pain and suffering
was interviewing Christian music artist Steven Curtisshould remain rooted in the Scriptures, and the Bible
Chapman, the repeated Dove Award winner who hasis no book of denial. It features real people, real
sold more than 10 million records.events, real experiences.
For the program of the morning, Steven CurtisBeginning with the teaching of Jesus Christ, death is
Chapman was discussing with Dr. Dobson the recentspoken of in the New Testament as "sleep". When a
loss of Steven's adopted daughter Maria Sue. Mr.believer died, the first-century Christian community
Chapman described how faith in God has helped hiswould say the person had "fallen asleep". But that
family cope with the tragedy. On May 21, 2008, the"sleep" was a euphemism for death.
little Maria Sue died when her 17-year-old brother WillAlso, the language of sleep underscored the belief
Franklin ran over her in the family's driveway with anthat for the Christian death has lost its painful sting;
SUV. Maria had just turned 5 on May 13 th.death has become as calm as falling asleep.
Steven Curtis narrated how he prayed, seeking toFurthermore, the sleep imagery summed up the early
change the forecast of dark cloud that wasChristians' hope of resurrection, that the Christian
descending over the Chapman family. He said, "Iwould literally rise from the dead at the end of this
heard myself praying over and over again all the wayage, when Jesus Christ returns to planet earth. Never
to Vanderbilt Hospital, 'In the name of Jesus, breathedid the early Christians or the New Testament ever
life.'" That was the shortened version of the prayerportray the experience of dying and death as healing
Steven began praying in the driveway as the medicalor as rising from the dead!
team was working on Maria. Dad kept believing thatThe early believers would reject the denial theology
God was going to breathe life back into his preciousthat has become so rampant, coming even from the
girl.lips of famous Christian leaders. There are many
As that awful day unfolded, Steven Curtis prayedScriptures we can use to comfort people without
some more, "In the holy name, in the worthy name,resorting to the crude denial of death and disease.
breathe life. God, I know You can do this. You'veA clergyman recalls how he was tempted to use
breathed life into dead bodies before. I know Youdenial theology as a cheap, watered-down way to
can do this... Jesus, breathe life into Maria... God, I'mcomfort a young lady whose baby had died before
gonna trust You, I'm gonna bless You even in this."delivery. He had considered cheap comfort, because
Dad had a sense that he was breathing for Maria.he really didn't know how to help this young lady. It
"In my mind, I was preparing myself to go in andwould have been far better for the minister to keep
pray for Maria to be raised from the dead", Mr.silent than give the girl some of the cliches that denial
Chapman said as he neared the hospital. "I'm gonnatheology is famous for.
go and bolt the door, and they can come in and callThe grieving mom asked the minister to do a funeral
me crazy and say whatever they want to, but I'mfor her stillborn baby. It was the preacher's first time
gonna pray and just trust that God can raise herconducting such a funeral, and he has never done
back up..."one like it ever since. Frankly, the man of God really
At that point, Dr. Dobson, perhaps feeling helplessdid not know how exactly to comfort that young
and uncomfortable about the level of pain in his radiowoman and somehow ease the pain of her acute
guest's voice, gently interrupted Chapman to set thegrief. Finally, he shared the story of King David and
singer straight. You know how Christian musiciansQueen Bathsheba whose baby had died, regardless
some times have a twisted theology, based on aof the fact that David had prayed and fasted, asking
poor knowledge of the Scriptures? Except that in thisGod to spare the life of the innocent infant. Using
case, it was not the singer but the doctor whothat biblical account, the minister told the mother and
needed a theological fix.the sympathizers present something like this:
Dr. Dobson told Steven Curtis and the radio audience,"None of knows why God allowed your innocent
"In fact He (God) did, He did, because we knowbaby to die before birth. Our faith in the God of the
where she is". Not surprisingly, Steven CurtisBible tells us that there are some things we will not
abandoned his line of what really happened andbe able to understand or explain in this lifetime. All we
agreed with Dr. Dobson that "in fact" God did raiseBible believers know for sure is that the human race
Maria from the dead, since the little girl is now atlives in a fallen world, an imperfect world, and in such
home with the Lord.a world bad things do happen to innocent people,
"And my son Caleb said it at the memorial service,"even to innocent babies like your little one. To
Steven Curtis continued. "He said, 'God did heal Maria.continue to believe and trust God in spite of our
He answered our prayers for Maria. He healed her,inability to comprehend such a reality is the essence
but He didn't heal her in the way that we like veryof true faith. You can still trust God, even though He
much right now..."did not answer your prayer for your baby's life, even
So, according to these two Christian men along withthough you do not know or understand why your
Steven's son Caleb, God "in fact" did two things forchild did not live."
Maria Sue:Does Dr. James Dobson not know this? Of course,
- God raised Maria from the dead.he does. After all, Dr. Dobson wrote the book, When
- God healed Maria of the coma.God Doesn't Make Sense, wrestling with the subject
Denial theology! That's exactly what that sounds like.of theodicy (the issue of evil in lieu of God's
That's what it is. Denial theology confirms the chargeexistence). So what are we to make of Dr. Dobson's
that so many non-Christians levy against religiouspreference for denial theology in his interview with
people: that we use faith to hide from reality. This isSteven Curtis Chapman? One can only guess that the
the kind of faith that cannot be defended withlapse was due to the psychology major's
reason. Thus it portrays our faith as illogical. This kindwell-meaning effort to sympathize with Mr. Chapman
of religious jargon attracts the label of "blind faith",and relieve the still fresh memory of the intense grief
and it should.that Marie Sue's death must have brought upon the
The fact, the truth, the reality is that in May of 2008,Chapman family.
a 5-year-old girl named Maria Sue Chapman died. GodBut even at that, Dr. Dobson still came across as a
did not raise her from the dead. If Jesus hadtypical denial theologian, who seems to trivialize the
breathed life back into her, Maria would physically bementally demanding question of 'why bad things
a part of the Chapman family today. The truth ishappen to good people'. Denial theologians tend to
that God did not heal Maria Sue of the coma fromthrow trite answers at the deep questions of
which she never returned. The reality is that God didtheodicy, the presence of undeserved evil in a world
not answer the prayers of the Chapmans and thegoverned by the hands of a sovereign God, a deity
thousands of believers who prayed with them, askingwhom believers know to be omnipotent (all-powerful
the Lord to preserve little Maria's young life.and beneficent (good, kind, loving).
We play ostrich to stare such a devastating reality inThere is much hope that denial theology shall not
the face and stick our theological necks in the sandcontinue to rule the thinking of the faith community.
and come away spewing such piety as, "God didHow can we be so sure? Because left to sort out
raise her to life. God did heal her." We can believetheir own experiences in light of their faith, ordinary
Maria is in Heaven, but that is not the same as herreligious people will express views that resemble
being resurrected or resuscitated. Not recoveringrealty theology. That was exactly the way Steven
from the trauma of coma is not the same as beingCurtis Chapman was narrating his story, until Dr.
healed of coma.James Dobson stepped in to save the day. The good
Denial theology does not serve the Christian faithdoctor should have left Mr. Chapman alone, so he
well, or any other faith for that matter. It mockscould continue to sort out his very own theology of
true faith, which keeps on believing and trusting God,pain and suffering, rather than stuff him with a loaf
even though Maria died, even though Maria was notof cookie-cutter denial theology.
healed.